I would also like to add that I think that Aiden's mom is a good mom. She has been a part of my life for many years and I do love her. I didn't just stop loving her because my son and her broke up. I didn't start loving her because she was with my son. I love a person for that person not because of the realtioship they have with a family member of mine. I just don't like the fact that she wants to take her son away from a life that he has know "forever, his forever" to something that he knows nothing about. Being a parent is not easy.