Sunday, March 23, 2008

Please read the whole entry

Your best friend tells you she is pregnant. What is your reaction? I would be trying to calm her down!!  She would be sooo upset!

When is the last time you wanted to punch someone in their face?
today, I promise I will explain  later

What is the last thing you spent money on?
easter basket stuff

Do you think you gained or lost weight this past month?
  I know I lost

Crunchy or Puffy Cheetos?
Neither I don't like cheetos

Congratulations! You just had a son. What's his name?
Seriously this would be a miracle since I have to "parts" to have a baby anymore but if I did I would name him Mark after my husband

Congratulations! You just had a daughter. What's her name?
See previous for miracle part, but her name would be Marina

What are you craving right now?

What was the last thing you cried about?
Aiden and the situtation with him

When you buy something and your change is 2 cents, do you keep it or tell the cashier to keep it?
  I put in my purse pocket that holds the vacation fund change

What color is your tissue box?
I have no clue

Do you have a ceiling fan in your room, and if so, is there dust on that fan?
No we had family over this weekend so I dusted it yesterday!

Scariest thing you've experienced in the last year?
I think I am experienceing the scariest part of the year as we speak

Do you wear a name tag at work?
A badge with my name on it yes.  I need it to get scrubs and all sorts of stuff

Have you ever had a garage sale?

What color is your iPod?

What is the last alcoholic beverage you had? wine right now

Are you happy right now?
such a complicated question.....yes I love my life but there are some situations that I am hurting so bad about

Who came over last?
My sweet Aiden was here

Do you drink beer?
Bud light in the bottle

Have your brothers or sisters ever told you that you were adopted?
  This is seriously a family joke!!!  My brother was the baby of five, the first four were girls,  you gotta know we told him he was adopted!  My sister (hateful thing that she is, Just joking) used to babysit for us and she told my brother he was adopted and that they needed to come take him back.  She had one of her friends come knock on the door and say they were here to take him back.  My brother hid under the bed till my mother came home and YES my sister was in serious trouble

What is your favorite key on your key chain?
The key to my house.  It is my sanctuary

What was the last movie you watched at home?
The pacifier

<FONTCOLOR=#004D00>What is in your pocket?
No pockets in my jammies.

Where do you hurt?
In my heart

Has someone ever made you a Build-A-Bear?
OH yes someone did, my stepdaughter made me a monkey cuz she knows I love them, but she sleeps wit it!!!  LOL  Aiden made a bunny a few months ago with my husband (papa) and he loves that bunny, his name is Rabbit Johnson.  I just love that little boy (Aiden not the bunny)

What's something fun you did today?
I watched Aiden wake up his dad and look for his Easter basket. My son, my grandson, together, LOVE!

What is your favorite aisle at Wal-Mart?
The clearance aisle

When is your birthday?
November 7 (hummm dawn we are close)

Is there anything hanging from your rear view mirror? A monkey

What kind of milk do you drink?

What is something you need to go shopping for? hummmm I don't need anything at the moment

I hope everyone had a Blessed Easter.  I had family and friends around me so the day was Blessed.

Some things were ugly though.  I know you all know I have a grandson, Aiden,  whom I love with all my heart.  Aiden was here this weekend with us.  It was the first time I have seen Aiden in almost a month.

I had protective services at my house this past week.  Investigating us.  Us son, Aiden's dad, my husband and me.  They went to my house,  Aiden's mothers house, and my son's (aiden's dad) house.  Aiden's mother claimed he was abused during visitation.  You know this is really hard to write about since everyone reading this does not "really" know me.  Which makes it sooooooooooooo hard to write about.  Aiden is not abused ANYWHERE!!  I hate the fact that Aiden's Mom and Dad are not longer together.  Aiden's mom is married to a man that is in the service and lives in a state that we don't live in.  I hate the fact that Aiden's mom wants to take him away to  that state so she can be with her husband.  My son has been to court to stop Aiden from moving so far away from him and has won his court case.  Aiden is to stay in this state.  Aiden's mother can move but Aiden can not.  Now this.  Why would someone bring up false claims of abuse to a child???  Why would someone stop a child from being with his/her father, if the father wanted to be a part of the childs life?????  Why would someone lie to a child's father and say that the father wanted nothing to do with the child if the father really did want to see the child??  I know this is making not much sense.  To make a long story short, why would a parent, father or mother, want to take rights away from the other parent if they knew that (deep down) the child really was loved and cared for? 

I have been though this myself.  I have an ex husband who is an alcholic.  I have had him come to my house drunk and wanting his kids.  That is the ONLY time I denied him visitation, cuZ he could not drive!!  Why would you stop a child from seeing his father/mother if you really knew he was not being abused?  Would you deny it just so you could move?  Would  you deny visitation for revenge? 

Ahhhhhhh my heart hurts.  My son is a good father.  He does not abuse his son.  Aiden loves to see us.  He loves to visit.  Why does it have to come to this?  Why does it have to come to a fight?  I don't get it.  Wednesday is court.  I know that you so not know me in "real life" and I do not know if you belive in the power of prayer,  but I do.  Please pray that "what if right for Aiden" comes to fruition. 


imgr8phil said...

You know I can relate to this for sure.  Why would a parent prevent another parent from being with their child.  Because of vindictiveness and hatred that only keep growing and never ends.  People will say or do anything to win or get what they want.  I know what it is like to be lied about in the court and the court telling me I'm a bad person.  I got so tired of that.  Lies will continue until she gets what she wants and who cares about the child.  I have had a decade of not having a daughter in my life.  The only one I will probably ever have.  No one can replace the lost time.  I will never watch her grow up.  It pains me to the core and I'm tearing up right now so I'd better stop writing.  Have a good week and I hope that your son won't go through too much pain.


lv2trnscrb said...

(((Linda and family))) I will pray that the truth will come out and that the judge (or whoever) will see the truth of the false accusations (I can't imagine you/nor anyone in your household ever hurting anyone); this would be so hard to deal with; I'm so sorry; you will be in my prayers; please do let me know the outcome


princesssaurora said...

I am praying my butt off for you all.  Oh how awful... I know how much you love Aiden... very small minded of his mom.  Immature and small minded.

be well,

linnpooh said...

{{{Linda}}} I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this....I'm so sorry for your son too. I will keep this in my constant prayers, and ask God to let the truth be revealed to the judge so your beloved little Grandson can stay where your family is. How sad that she would do this to spite your son. I'm so sorry.

Pooh Hugs,

whatafinegrl said...

People are selfish and childish.
This happened to my husband's cousin. It only got fixed with a lawyer.
If she can get visitation denied by the court, then there is no reason she can't leave the state.
It's her game. Sad enough.
Get a game plan. Record your time with him if you can to prove that she is lying. I know it seems so unnessary but right now it's his word against hers and the court only see's the possiblity not the reality of it happening.
Hope I helped. Take care and know that we do understand that you are a good person and you have a wonderful family

ekgillen said...

I am so sorry to hear about this.  My heart hurts for you.